wench

Yes, I meant that in every way you’re thinking of right now.  In a continuation of my Wench’s Guide to Relationships (or lackthereof), I figured it was appropriate to talk about balls and getting them.
I don’t know where it came from, but at some point, probably after high school, I let go a little and [...]

So, as you may have noticed, there seems to be a small handful of guys in my life right now.  I can understand how it can get confusing if you’re attempting to follow along/live vicariously through me.
So, here’s short little list, with a wee bit of a description, to help.  I’m not going to go [...]

Some times it takes a lot of soul searching to figure out where you’re at.  And though I may not be able to pin-point it on a map, I feel like I have a halfway decent idea of where I am in life right now.

I enjoy my job; my budget is still going to be [...]

So, I’m sort of seeing a couple guys right now.
I think.
Honestly, at this very moment, I’m not sure what’s going on.
(Part of that could be the fact that it’s midnight, I’ve been gone/busy for the last 13 hours and the lack of food… oh, yeah, and I’m blogging from bed because I really should be [...]

Okay, lets face it… Guys, you need some help.  Heed this advice, please!

We like it when you call/text/email… communication, it’s pretty awesome.
If you’re “not seriously seeing anyone right now”, then it’s probably good to tell the people you aren’t seriously seeing.  Don’t want to give them the wrong impression, and hey some of them will [...]

Okay, so I know yesterday was 09-09-09…. but did that account for the awesomeness yesterday, or did yesterday just rock?
1. Beatles Rock Band came out. I almost feel like I’ve been raised on the Beatles.  My mom has been a fan for ages (hell, that’s her generation.. ish), so being a small child and having [...]

Over the past few days I’ve spent a lot of time offline writing.  A lot of time writing inevitably means a lot of time thinking, a lot of time stuck in my own head.
So of course the boy and that situation, and basically all of the relationships and encounters and mess from the last 11 [...]

As much as don’t want to take away from Rachel’s guest post… I was going through my reader, and noticed this post from my friend Mawls.
“I don’t understand what I’m supposed to do.”
That’s sort of how I feel right now.  I mean, I’m not necessarily stressed about life.  I’m just not sure what the next [...]

So, I left off confused and concerted about the boy because he said he might get back with his ex, or get a restraining order… I said a lot has happened, and it truly has…
A few days after that conversation, the boy’s band was headlining a show.  I was excited.  Not only would I get [...]

I wrote this post originally in a tiny notebook on Friday afternoon…. just like my other post, a lot has gone on since I originally wrote this…
Anyway… this could really be called “Boy Drama: Part One”…..
First, I want to apologize to my mom.  I know you don’t read this blog, but I hate thinking I’ve [...]