Comments on: The tale of the Four-Day Boyfriend http://www.thiswench.com/2010/01/07/the-tale-of-the-four-day-boyfriend/ Thu, 01 Apr 2010 04:26:36 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Jeff Jeff http://www.thiswench.com/2010/01/07/the-tale-of-the-four-day-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-2835 Jeff Jeff Tue, 12 Jan 2010 21:28:47 +0000 http://www.thiswench.com/?p=1753#comment-2835 So four years ago in September, I had a 4 day girlfriend, actually wait it was 5 days. 2 dates. I overdid it for her too. On the second date, I gave her a CD and a rose. The CD was just for her and professionally done. It impacted her enough to write me every 6 months because of it. We hate each other now :-) On that second date, I bought her a rose. She loved it. Then the next day, she told me roses were so unoriginal and if she was smiling, its because she was being nice :-) I think she hates me, because I raised the bar. I hate her, because I failed. There were other issues too (like her bff's bf on the date), but even if those issues didn't exist, we'd still hate one another. I know she hates me by raising the bar, because she still remembers me and writes me about it every so often. She's been engaged twice, but points out they never treated her like I did in those 5 days. It is a beautiful thing :-) Now I try far far less and it feels wonderful to not try :-) So four years ago in September, I had a 4 day girlfriend, actually wait it was 5 days. 2 dates. I overdid it for her too. On the second date, I gave her a CD and a rose. The CD was just for her and professionally done. It impacted her enough to write me every 6 months because of it.

We hate each other now :-) On that second date, I bought her a rose. She loved it. Then the next day, she told me roses were so unoriginal and if she was smiling, its because she was being nice :-)

I think she hates me, because I raised the bar. I hate her, because I failed. There were other issues too (like her bff’s bf on the date), but even if those issues didn’t exist, we’d still hate one another. I know she hates me by raising the bar, because she still remembers me and writes me about it every so often. She’s been engaged twice, but points out they never treated her like I did in those 5 days. It is a beautiful thing :-)

Now I try far far less and it feels wonderful to not try :-)

]]> By: CMigs http://www.thiswench.com/2010/01/07/the-tale-of-the-four-day-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-2812 CMigs Mon, 11 Jan 2010 18:16:12 +0000 http://www.thiswench.com/?p=1753#comment-2812 I have weird definitions of privacy. I have weird definitions of privacy.

]]> By: Rini CS http://www.thiswench.com/2010/01/07/the-tale-of-the-four-day-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-2798 Rini CS Mon, 11 Jan 2010 01:46:04 +0000 http://www.thiswench.com/?p=1753#comment-2798 Now? Just now? Not even when I was talking about my underwear?? ;) Now? Just now? Not even when I was talking about my underwear?? ;)

]]> By: CMigs http://www.thiswench.com/2010/01/07/the-tale-of-the-four-day-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-2797 CMigs Mon, 11 Jan 2010 01:39:43 +0000 http://www.thiswench.com/?p=1753#comment-2797 Now I feel like a voyeur. Now I feel like a voyeur.

]]> By: Rini CS http://www.thiswench.com/2010/01/07/the-tale-of-the-four-day-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-2785 Rini CS Sun, 10 Jan 2010 01:58:10 +0000 http://www.thiswench.com/?p=1753#comment-2785 I just need you to know that I've read this... multiple times. I'm not sure what to say. ... I'll contact you when I'm ready. I just need you to know that I’ve read this… multiple times.
I’m not sure what to say.

… I’ll contact you when I’m ready.

]]> By: The Boy formerly known as Prince http://www.thiswench.com/2010/01/07/the-tale-of-the-four-day-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-2774 The Boy formerly known as Prince Sat, 09 Jan 2010 03:54:56 +0000 http://www.thiswench.com/?p=1753#comment-2774 Hello Erini, you like my name? LOL seriously though... sometimes people make choices that causes others to scratch their head in wonder. I never questioned your choice, never would i disrespect you or distrust your ideas. I woke up late to a text, and that text was typed as a final decision..more importantly to me it was your decision. the choice was never presented in a way where i could disagree or work anything out with you. on my side of the pond i did disagree 100% yet i really did not know why you made that choice and again i was in a place where i couldn't even ask why. but i am the type not to drop something my mind ponders on and i know when we would of talked next my disagreement will come out (and probably not in the nicest way). since i know what i would do i made a choice to just walk away. walk away being the guy who had you "smitten" and was sweet and was super nice without any real negative and most importantly walk away being the guy who never questioned your opinion or in anyway disrespected your choice. I could walk away being the perfect dude..well you get the idea. a few days ago i discovered my iphone tethering hack was stopping my phone from letting me know i have voice mails (since September! OMG), and i listened to your voicemail..hmmm you sounded a bit more willing to talk about your decision. GREAT! i fucked up..even trying to be the best you known i still fucked up. so there you have it, it was never about all or nothing with me (did you forget i was happy just texting you, what you think my 4 days of being bf raised my standards.. joking), it had nothing to do with being bf/gf/wtf or anything, remember when i told you in the car i never cared about labels like that.. i do miss you, i do check this blog, pink dino, and your twitter everyday, i enjoyed your kiss and your smile. the best part about our time was how open you were, you just showed the world your feelings for me (literally) and for me.. i always wanted that..i seem to suffer from knowing when someone likes me unless i am told directly. i can admit these things and even admit my fuck up to the world (I.E. why i am posting this here) but i don't care what anyone else really thinks..after all to me it was always about you and why this is addressed to you. i am sorry for my reply to you, but i don't regret it..i made the best choice i could at that moment with what was presented to me at that moment. we never did get to watch Ice Age together though (OMG I HEART BUCK!).. Good day Erini.. William D. ps..i really suck at writing..eew i am writing on a blog..ugh i double suck.. Hello Erini, you like my name? LOL

seriously though…
sometimes people make choices that causes others to scratch their head in wonder. I never questioned your choice, never would i disrespect you or distrust your ideas. I woke up late to a text, and that text was typed as a final decision..more importantly to me it was your decision. the choice was never presented in a way where i could disagree or work anything out with you. on my side of the pond i did disagree 100% yet i really did not know why you made that choice and again i was in a place where i couldn’t even ask why.

but i am the type not to drop something my mind ponders on and i know when we would of talked next my disagreement will come out (and probably not in the nicest way). since i know what i would do i made a choice to just walk away. walk away being the guy who had you “smitten” and was sweet and was super nice without any real negative and most importantly walk away being the guy who never questioned your opinion or in anyway disrespected your choice. I could walk away being the perfect dude..well you get the idea.

a few days ago i discovered my iphone tethering hack was stopping my phone from letting me know i have voice mails (since September! OMG), and i listened to your voicemail..hmmm you sounded a bit more willing to talk about your decision. GREAT! i fucked up..even trying to be the best you known i still fucked up.

so there you have it, it was never about all or nothing with me (did you forget i was happy just texting you, what you think my 4 days of being bf raised my standards.. joking), it had nothing to do with being bf/gf/wtf or anything, remember when i told you in the car i never cared about labels like that..

i do miss you, i do check this blog, pink dino, and your twitter everyday, i enjoyed your kiss and your smile. the best part about our time was how open you were, you just showed the world your feelings for me (literally) and for me.. i always wanted that..i seem to suffer from knowing when someone likes me unless i am told directly. i can admit these things and even admit my fuck up to the world (I.E. why i am posting this here) but i don’t care what anyone else really thinks..after all to me it was always about you and why this is addressed to you.

i am sorry for my reply to you, but i don’t regret it..i made the best choice i could at that moment with what was presented to me at that moment.

we never did get to watch Ice Age together though (OMG I HEART BUCK!)..

Good day Erini..
William D.

ps..i really suck at writing..eew i am writing on a blog..ugh i double suck..

]]> By: Rini CS http://www.thiswench.com/2010/01/07/the-tale-of-the-four-day-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-2768 Rini CS Fri, 08 Jan 2010 17:14:39 +0000 http://www.thiswench.com/?p=1753#comment-2768 Nothing a little wrong with a hot piece of man-candy. ;) Maybe I should actually figure out what I want... but that's part of the joy of dating, figuring things out... Anyway.. Someone I can go have a fun time with, someone to cuddle at home with, and someone to make out like crazy with... Nothing a little wrong with a hot piece of man-candy. ;)

Maybe I should actually figure out what I want… but that’s part of the joy of dating, figuring things out… Anyway.. Someone I can go have a fun time with, someone to cuddle at home with, and someone to make out like crazy with…

]]> By: CMigs http://www.thiswench.com/2010/01/07/the-tale-of-the-four-day-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-2767 CMigs Fri, 08 Jan 2010 17:08:05 +0000 http://www.thiswench.com/?p=1753#comment-2767 I'm looking for a man who functions more as a decorative object than a romantic partner. I’m looking for a man who functions more as a decorative object than a romantic partner.

]]> By: Rini CS http://www.thiswench.com/2010/01/07/the-tale-of-the-four-day-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-2766 Rini CS Fri, 08 Jan 2010 16:56:53 +0000 http://www.thiswench.com/?p=1753#comment-2766 Thanks MinD! :) Thanks MinD! :)

]]> By: MinD http://www.thiswench.com/2010/01/07/the-tale-of-the-four-day-boyfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-2765 MinD Fri, 08 Jan 2010 16:50:54 +0000 http://www.thiswench.com/?p=1753#comment-2765 You dated for four days and he's so bitter he wants no more contact? Jeez. Clearly you made the right decision (or so I'd say). It's definitely important to follow your instincts in dating and if it didn't feel right only four days in, then the chances of that improving are likely slim. The beginning of a relationship should be blissful and happy. Any thoughts of uncertainty, and it's probably not the best decision. I say you did the right thing. Try not to feel so badly about it. You dated for four days and he’s so bitter he wants no more contact? Jeez. Clearly you made the right decision (or so I’d say). It’s definitely important to follow your instincts in dating and if it didn’t feel right only four days in, then the chances of that improving are likely slim. The beginning of a relationship should be blissful and happy. Any thoughts of uncertainty, and it’s probably not the best decision. I say you did the right thing. Try not to feel so badly about it.

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