Comments on: wench’s guide to relationships (or lackthereof) http://www.thiswench.com/2009/12/09/wenchs-guide-to-relationships-or-lackthereof/ Thu, 01 Apr 2010 04:26:36 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: rini http://www.thiswench.com/2009/12/09/wenchs-guide-to-relationships-or-lackthereof/comment-page-1/#comment-2230 rini Sat, 12 Dec 2009 03:59:30 +0000 http://www.thiswench.com/?p=1696#comment-2230 true. but well. ... MAKING OUT. that's all. :) true. but well. … MAKING OUT.

that’s all. :)

]]> By: Jeff http://www.thiswench.com/2009/12/09/wenchs-guide-to-relationships-or-lackthereof/comment-page-1/#comment-2229 Jeff Sat, 12 Dec 2009 03:57:48 +0000 http://www.thiswench.com/?p=1696#comment-2229 The game has playas. Love doesn't. :-D The game has playas. Love doesn’t. :-D

]]> By: rini http://www.thiswench.com/2009/12/09/wenchs-guide-to-relationships-or-lackthereof/comment-page-1/#comment-2222 rini Sat, 12 Dec 2009 02:29:33 +0000 http://www.thiswench.com/?p=1696#comment-2222 But... But... I like the game. If you don't play... you don't get to make out. and I like making out. :) But… But… I like the game. If you don’t play… you don’t get to make out. and I like making out. :)

]]> By: Jeff http://www.thiswench.com/2009/12/09/wenchs-guide-to-relationships-or-lackthereof/comment-page-1/#comment-2218 Jeff Sat, 12 Dec 2009 01:35:24 +0000 http://www.thiswench.com/?p=1696#comment-2218 Sometimes its better to watch the game than play it :-) Sometimes its better to watch the game than play it :-)

]]> By: rini http://www.thiswench.com/2009/12/09/wenchs-guide-to-relationships-or-lackthereof/comment-page-1/#comment-2190 rini Thu, 10 Dec 2009 03:46:41 +0000 http://www.thiswench.com/?p=1696#comment-2190 Deidre - my brother always told me once I stop looking I'll find it. But I honestly don't think there's anything wrong with being proactive in looking for/starting relationships. I just don't think people should be consumed by it or let other opportunities pass them by. CMigs - Thanks. :) As for a horrendous work environment, that's definitely something that I don't think you need to wait to get out of before starting a relationship. However, you do want to be careful not to let that negativity seep into your search for and budding relationships. I mean, a truly awesome guy will be able to support you through that (and other) situations, but they shouldn't be a crutch at all nor should you just unload everything about your bad work environment onto them. My bad place was my stepmom passing away. I was in no shape to start a relationship at that point. And I believe that was the right things for me to do. However, I've also dealt with a work environment. I was on anti-anxiety and antidepressants along with seeing a psychiatrist because of my job. Would I still date during that time? Yes. But I left about 90-95% of my work baggage stored away when I was out. And don't worry. We'll work on that boldness. ;) Deidre – my brother always told me once I stop looking I’ll find it. But I honestly don’t think there’s anything wrong with being proactive in looking for/starting relationships. I just don’t think people should be consumed by it or let other opportunities pass them by.

CMigs – Thanks. :) As for a horrendous work environment, that’s definitely something that I don’t think you need to wait to get out of before starting a relationship. However, you do want to be careful not to let that negativity seep into your search for and budding relationships. I mean, a truly awesome guy will be able to support you through that (and other) situations, but they shouldn’t be a crutch at all nor should you just unload everything about your bad work environment onto them. My bad place was my stepmom passing away. I was in no shape to start a relationship at that point. And I believe that was the right things for me to do. However, I’ve also dealt with a work environment. I was on anti-anxiety and antidepressants along with seeing a psychiatrist because of my job. Would I still date during that time? Yes. But I left about 90-95% of my work baggage stored away when I was out.

And don’t worry. We’ll work on that boldness. ;)

]]> By: Deidre http://www.thiswench.com/2009/12/09/wenchs-guide-to-relationships-or-lackthereof/comment-page-1/#comment-2188 Deidre Thu, 10 Dec 2009 02:38:01 +0000 http://www.thiswench.com/?p=1696#comment-2188 I think this is some of the best advice, that when you're ready and open to new things it'll happen :) Great post! I think this is some of the best advice, that when you’re ready and open to new things it’ll happen :) Great post!

]]> By: CMigs http://www.thiswench.com/2009/12/09/wenchs-guide-to-relationships-or-lackthereof/comment-page-1/#comment-2184 CMigs Wed, 09 Dec 2009 18:52:26 +0000 http://www.thiswench.com/?p=1696#comment-2184 Yay! I like the advice. And, yes, I'll admit, that I am entertained by your exploits -- mostly because I have none at the moment and am not very bold. Here's a question: what if the bad place in your life is caused by a factor that is semi- out of your control, like a horrendous work environment that leaves you depleted on weekdays and weekends? Do you just wait to pursue the relaysh until you can find another job? I might have to wait like a decade for the R-ship to land if it is contingent on my finding another employment venue. Yay! I like the advice. And, yes, I’ll admit, that I am entertained by your exploits — mostly because I have none at the moment and am not very bold.

Here’s a question: what if the bad place in your life is caused by a factor that is semi- out of your control, like a horrendous work environment that leaves you depleted on weekdays and weekends? Do you just wait to pursue the relaysh until you can find another job? I might have to wait like a decade for the R-ship to land if it is contingent on my finding another employment venue.

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